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Monday, November 20, 2006
I loved a ninja because I am NOT a homosexual!
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Thursday, November 16, 2006
Vacationing from Blogland
The other night at dinner I was telling Jeff my long list of things to do. He looked at me and said, "Maybe you need to take a break from blogging until you get this done." Hmmm, why didn't I think of that!
So for the next few days, I am taking a break to get caught up on my work, school and house. And to have a few days with my scrapbook chicks doing what we do best talking and laughing with a few pages thrown in between.
If I don't see you before, have a Happy Thanksgiving! And remember to be thankful!!!
P.S To my sweet cousins (you know who you are) I am praying for you all. I know this is a hard time for each one of you. I will pray that God will lift your burden and bless your journey.
Wednesday, November 15, 2006
HAPPY THOUGHTS!
Monday, November 13, 2006
Tuesday Thanksgivings
Today I choose to be thankful for the Holiday season that is coming upon us.
I say choose because I know that sometimes people look at this time of year as a burden. But I like to see it as a blessing-a time to reflect on all the ways God has blessed us this past year.
Jeff and I have made the decision to keep it simple this year. Just the basic holiday gathering for us. We choose to remember that Christmas is not the amount of presents under our tree but the one gift that has been sent from above. That gift: Jesus Christ.
We would rather enjoy spending time with friends and family rather than fighting the rush at the mall. We want to take time to sit in the glow of the Christmas tree. We want to spend time with our extended family but we also want to carve out a little time for ourselves. Who knows this may be the last year "by ourselves."
I pray that as you start to make your plans that you will schedule time to reflect and be thankful.
God has been good to us this year. So today I choose to take a moment and say thanks to the Lord for giving me life, love and laugher this last few years.
Sunday, November 12, 2006
"Out of the Mouth of Babes"
After church was over I turned to our good friends. Who have one son, named Sam, who is too old to attend Children's Church. We often have to surpress giggles when he yawns really loud during the middle of the service. Today was no different-just a little louder than normal. Jeff could not pull it together the rest of church.
I said to Alison his mom, "Glory, Glory!" (I was being funny after singing an active version of I'll Fly Away)
Sam reply, "Yeah it was BORING!"
We started dying laughing. "Sam, I didn't say BORING-I said GLORY!"
Sheepishly he said, "Oh sorry!"
But if you could have seen the face his father, A FW Dectitive, face. OH MY GOSH-HILARIOUS! His dad is known for taking church and bible study very seriously. His nickname is the 2-7 Nazi (a name of a year long bible study he leads)
Sweet Sam, don't ever loose your truth! It is what makes you who you are-Mr Jeff and I have laughed all day.
I will say "Glory"
And Jeff will reply "It was Boring-wasn't it!"
Here is something Sam would do:
Baptism Cannonball!
Saturday, November 11, 2006
HAPPY VETERAN'S DAY!
Friday, November 10, 2006
Celebrating My 100th post!
2. If I was born a boy my name would have been Bomber.
3. My brother's name is Gunnar-I guess my parents thought they would be funny naming the next son Bomber.
4. Thank God I was a GIRL!
5. We have no children but we have a name for our son.
6. His name will be Duke (something-no middle name yet).
7. Some of our family members are hoping we have all girls since they don't like the name Duke. I didn't like Duke at first either. But it is the most animated I have seen Jeff over any name so it will stay
8. But others like to tease and I am fine with that...for now.
9. When we do find out I am pregnant all jokes about the name Duke must stop! It is my job to protect my baby and I will fight you if I must. I'm not scared to whoop your @$%!
10. Just remember-I could name him Bomber.
11. But for now we are the cool Aunt and Uncle. We have 3 nieces and one nephew. These kids frequent the blog world often since they are a huge part of our life. And they do funny things.
12. I am finishing my degree-I FINALLY went back. I fell a little behind. But I am finishing it-that's all that matters.I just don't have many friends in college this go round. They see me as the old lady who does her homework and comes to class sober.
13. I didn't care if I got bad grades the first time I went to school-but this go round, I don't like to settle for less than a B.
14. I still don't know if I will finish. I am taking it one semester at a time. God will lead the way.
15. My husband is my best friend. I met him while I was working at Chili's.
16. He didn't like me the first time we met. He thought I was a "female dog". He soon realized that person he first met was not the real me.
17. How we ended up married is an example that God works in mysterious ways.
18. The song "Bless the Broken Road" by Rascal Flatts describes our relationship to a tee.
19. We were both mending broken hearts when we first met.
20. God blessed our broken road.
21. We married March 8, 2003.
22. The same day my cousin Clay and Maurine married.
23. Clay and Maurine just welcomed their first child, Avery Maurine.
24. Jeff would like to name our daughter Avery too.
25. I like the name but now with Clay and Maurine's first child being named Avery, well I just don't know.
26. We will see what happens-Clay and Maurine, this could be another one of our similarities one day.
27. Back to the wedding...if we only knew then what we know now.
28. I guarantee we would still be married it's just things would of been different.
29. More like-we would have eloped and called it a day.
30. We still live in the apartment that I moved into when Jeff and I were dating.
31. It's next door to my mom. It is a coincidence-the only apartment available at the time and I needed to move from my old apartment. It was too far from everyone.
32. Jeff will tell you that my mom is the best neighbor since she is never home.
33. What he doesn't know is that she stops by when he goes to work.
34. He works nights-this works out nicely for my mom and I to chat.
35. But she doesn't come by that much: She is never home.
36. Jeff and my mom have a running joke that our new house will be equipped with a mother-in-law's suite.
37. He says he will charge rent but give her a discount if she becomes the "on call babysitter" for our kids.
38. Which our kids are still in heaven.
39. A lady once asked me at a scrapbook retreat-what I did with my kids for the weekend. I said, "They are in heaven so I didn't have to find a babysitter." She turned white as a ghost. My BFS (best friend sometimes) Alison quickly explained that is my way of saying we don't have kids.
40. The lady thought I was strange-but per the quirky factor.com I am only 33% weird.
41. I work out of my home for Ashley Furniture.
42. Our little living room is my office.
43. Jeff and I both can't wait to have a separate room for all of my junk.
44. Ashley Furniture is big on catalogs.
45. My living room is covered with Ashley catalog pictures.
46. I love the job-just hate the stuff that invades my living room.
47. Jeff and I are looking to move in the spring.
48. I will be sad when we move.
49. Lots of memories have been made here.
50. I won't miss my upstairs neighbors. They like to play Spanish music really loud.
51. Bum, bum. Bum, Bum goes the beat.
52. Not to mention they own a squeaky bed. I am surprised they have yet to have kids with the amount of squeaking that takes place. Enough said.
53. I found out this week her name is Sarah when UPS mistook my apartment for hers.
54. Sarah now says hi to me.
55. She is not as evil as I thought-she just is very "active.”
56. I recently told Jeff that he could pick our new house.
57. I told him to cut it down to his Top 5 then I will go looking
58. That way I don’t have to have my heart broken each time we look at a house.
59. Trust me! He will look more than I would want to and it will be hard for me to pick just one.
60. He will also pick a good house-he has GREAT taste.
61. I believe this will make both of our lives easier.
62. We may be homeless come April 30th but I will still let him find a house.
63. When we bought our car-2 years ago, the plan was for it to be a Christmas surprise for me.
64. He looked but never committed until Memorial Day weekend. Almost 6 moths later.
65. So you see why I am choosing to let him pick the Top 5
66. ….the whole process will take awhile.
67.I always wonder what lesson I am supposed to be learning during this whole waiting period in my life.
68.But then I remember that once kids and a house come we will have less time to goof off-so I enjoy the wait!
69.I hate waiting in long lines though.
70.In fact, this year I am buying most of my Christmas Presents online or early.
71.By doing this I hope to beat the crowds-I don’t like crowds too much.
72.I do like people and being around people but not in a crowd. It freaks me out.
73.Especially at the mall surrounded by all the kids with their pants way too low. Why do people do such things? It is so not cool!
74.Speaking of cool, my favorite time of year is coming soon…winter.
75.My Birthday is in February-and I was born on a day that had a horrible freeze.
76.I think that is why I prefer the cooler weather over the hot summers.
77.And I live in Texas so summers are mega-hot.
78.I also don’t like to be hot while I am sleeping. I like it cold-very cold.
79.We have yet to turn on the heater-haven’t really needed to but last week it was cold one night and I just grabbed another blanket. I wanted to save money.
80.I am a frugal person. I like nice things but I don’t like paying full price.
81.Some people call me cheap-that’s okay since they are not the ones paying our bills
82.I am paying my way through school. This time without taking out any loans.
83.I just paid off my final school loan a few months back for a degree in which I have yet to get, I really don’t want more loans adding up.
84.I either take one class or two just depends on how I feel when I register for classes.
85.I may never finish my degree at this rate but again no big deal.
86.I choose to take one day at a time and not sweat it.
87.Another factor that plays into my class schedule is the amount of vacations Jeff and I have planned.
88.We love to travel.
89.When we got married, we decided to we hit 50 states in 50 years.
90.We are on the fast track; we have hit 19 states in 4 years.
91.In fact on our trip to Washington DC-was the first time we set up a blog. We realized that we had some funny stories happening and we couldn’t wait to get home to share.
92.Our favorite was the story of the Amish. They were a quaint little family. A true joy for me.
93.We started a road trip blog this past summer but that is mainly pictures.
94.Blessed Assurances was born out of a daily devotional I used to write and realized it was time for me to go bigger when my email said I could no longer send out mass emails.
95.Some people from my daily devotionals still check in here.
96.For those I am thankful.
97.For the new friends I have made in the last 100 posts, I would like to say thank you for hanging around.
98.I hope you have been inspired.
99.Who knows what the future holds for this blog.
100.But one thing is for sure-I know who holds the future and that is my loving most gracious Heavenly Father. Thank you Lord for carrying me through good times and bad.
Thursday, November 09, 2006
My 13 Favorite Websites

I don't know about you but I like to get ideas of websites to frequent especially if they make my life easier. Enjoy!
1. Two Peas and A Bucket If you are a scrapbooker or looking for a creative spark this is the place to be...it is perfect for when you hit the creative brick wall. You will walk away with many ideas.
2. Martha Stewart She is my favorite for decorating ideas. I also find recipes, crafts and cleaning tips here.
3. Food Network If you ever need a new recipe this is the place to go. I keep Food Network on in the background and often see recipes I would like to try-I can print the recipes online here. They also have videos that teach you how to use a knife, dice and mince.
4. Anywho- A yellow pages/white pages on line. It is faster and easier to navigate than the yellow pages online. I saved an address book online and refer to it often.
5. Organized Home-This is a huge help to keeping my busy life organized. Last Christmas I printed up the "Organized Christmas" pages and already my plan for this year has been laid out. I also have established routines based on this website. (If you battle depression-a routine is the best thing to START doing to get you out of the funk. Trust me-I have conquered the depression thing so if you find yourself wanting to sleep or do nothing all the time-go here and get yourself a routine.)
6. Craft TV Weekly A online tv show that walks you through scrapbook techniques. It's free so check it out.
7. ABC- Did you miss your favorite ABC show like LOST, Desperate Housewives or Grey's Anatomy? Watch it for free online the next day. We are too cheap to buy TIVO so this is what I do-LOVE IT!
8. Netflix Most people use netflix these days but it is my favorite spot for catching up on my classic movies
9. One Place This is your one stop shop for all the great Christian talk shows. Revive Our Hearts, Focus on the Family, Precepts for Life and Family Life Today are just a few of the shows I listen to at my convience. Most of these allow you to download an MP3 of the show for free-I download them to my IPOD and listen while I am cleaning my house.
10. Fandango Find out the local theatre times here. If we know the movie will be sold out-we buy in advance and pick it up at the little kiosk at the the movie theatre.
11. Proverbs 31- This is a wonderful women's ministry. I love what it stands for and what they have taught me over the years. A true blessing if I do say so myself.
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Wednesday, November 08, 2006
Weddings Vs The Marriage Part 2

Wedding Advice for the WIFE to be:
1. Make a list of attributes you would want in a mate BEFORE you find your mate. My mom suggested that I do this after my first "crush" in high school came to an end. She found me on the floor crying my eyes out when she said, "What did you like about him and what didn't you like?" So I thought about it and made a list. I recently found my list and I am happy to say that Jeff checked off on almost everything.
The reason it is better to make a list BEFORE you start dating is so that you will not be jaded by the "I am soooo in love" state of mind. It happens to the best of us and if you aren't prepared you will settle for the first guy that says "I love you, you complete me" and all the other junk people say when they are high on love.
2. Find out who YOU are first before settling into any type of serious dating situation. Jeff and I had both come out of hurtful, unhealthy relationships. Because of this we both took a break from dating. Jeff came into my life when I wasn't looking for a date or a mate and vice versa. God used this time to help both of us grow and figure out what we wanted in our next relationship and for us to become friends first. I encourage everyone to have a season of "singleness" in order to become better acquainted with yourself but most importantly God. Especially if you are someone who jumps in and out of relationships back to back. That's not healthy...
3. Develop your home making skills. Learn to cook, take up sewing, get yourself in a house keeping routine. These are all part of being a Proverbs 31 wife. Ask people in your life be it a mother, mentor or friend to help you develop these skills. This truly will prepare you for marriage and keeping up with your husband.
4. When you find that certain someone ask yourself the following questions.
-What is his Relationship to God like?
Does he go to church?
Does he have a daily quiet time?
-How does he treat others?
Does he get angry easy, is he lazy, is he hyper?
Does he think about others needs?
-How does he treat his family?
Does he honor his parents?
How does he treat you?
Does he treat you like a lady?
Does he honor your body?
Does he call you and make a point to spend time with you? Or do you do all the work.
Side Note: If you are chasing after him, three words, KNOCK IT OFF!
-How does he deal with finances?
Does he spend unwisely?
Does he keep a budget?
Is he a compulsive shopper?
All of these things will play a big role in your marriage. There are more questions you and your future spouse need to ask each other-this is just the beginning. The most important thing though is not consider marriage and or dating without praying first. Have friends and family support your relationship in prayer. It makes a huge difference if you have someone in your life that knows you well who can pray with you and hold you accountable. I had a mentor friend who helped me in so many ways during the course of dating, engagement and now as a married woman. She has been a real blessing to both Jeff and I, so let me encourage you to find someone who can walk with you.
Tuesday, November 07, 2006
Monday, November 06, 2006
Tuesday Thanksgivings

The other day I was having a "moment". I have these often about this or that. My mom was there-like she has often been through out my life. She told me flat out, "The reason you are freaking out is because you are not living in the moment-you are living too far into the future and you need to live in the I Am." Which is here way of saying, "Don't get too far ahead of God's plans."
Here is the thing that I am the most thankful for-she has risen above her past. We all have a past some more public than others. Hers was a public one and she faced a lot of scrutiny but she has grown beyond this and I am thankful.
Last week, she started her new job as Executive Admin to the Pastor of Global Ministries at Gateway Church. I could of not been more proud. She has grown leaps in bound the last few months. Proof to me that God answers prayers.
I am thankful that she never gave up on herself or us. I am also thankful that she trusted God enough to remove the "junk" in her life and step out on faith in starting this new job. I am thankful for her listening ear. I am thankful that she is the one who encourages me to get up at 6:30 in the morning to walk two miles. I am thankful that she gives me advice when I am have a problem to solve. I am thankful that she continues to encourage me to keep on writing. I am thankful that she has started her own ministry. And tonight she is meeting with her first mentee-she will be a great mentor to this woman. I know this because she has been a great mentor to me.
So tonight I post this message only because tomorrow morning my mom and I are walking to place our vote and since I have been sick all day today-I may have to go to the doctor tomorrow and you know how the doctors office can be...BRUTAL!
Weddings Vs The Marriage Part 1
It is no secret in my family that while planning my wedding almost 4 years ago, I became a little obsessed with the wedding planning. Jeff and I both worked together to pay for this little shin-dig. It was a struggle from day one-especially since neither of us wanted to go into debt to pull this thing off. We also had different views on how things should go. I had always envisioned a wedding with every single one of my family and friends. Jeff just wanted his close family and his two best friends. He didn't care who came he just wanted to get married. I did because I wanted all the bells and whistles.
My husband sent me a card while after one of the biggest fights of our relationship. The reason for this fight: the number of guests to invite. The card said, "Let's not forget that in the end the only thing that should matter on March 8 is you and I becoming man and wife." I soon realized how off base I had been while planning the wedding. After that card, things didn't matter anymore because in the end the only thing that mattered was Jeff and I becoming man and wife.
The total cost of our wedding was just over $5,000. We did not have a caterer-we served Cake, Punch and M&M's. It was at 2 and my cousin was getting married the same day at 7. So all of our families went out to eat between weddings. We had friend who was looking to start her own photography business photograph our big day. That alone saved us tons of money. Our church has a "Wedding Pantry" for all the small things you need-punch bowl, ceramic columns, linens that sort of thing. My mom paid for the wedding dress as our wedding gift. I made all the bouquets except my own. Jeff insisted that I have "real flowers."
About three weeks out from our wedding, I truly started enjoying the moment. When it came time for the wedding-I was having fun, laughing with my friends and enjoying the moment. Looking back, I am thankful for each and every person who helped me put the "Wedding Crazy" into perspective. I couldn't wait to walk down the aisle to my future husband. I laughed when my niece Faith threw a fit because she did not want to walk down the aisle. No big deal-I knew these things would happen so I just chilled. 5 minutes before the wedding my two best friends waited with me upstairs and we laughed and cried at the whole journey. I grabbed my grandfathers hand and we prepared our little assent. He told me " You can back out now if you want." As we passed the table in the atrium at our church filled with M&M's he stopped to help himself-he insisted that I take a drink of punch too. I said, "We have to go they are all waiting for us!" And he winked at me and said' " You sure you don't want to call it off!" I just grabbed his arm and yanked him towards the door.
Tune in Wednesday for the advice I NOW give to all new brides...
Sunday, November 05, 2006
Changes...
I woke up last night from a dream where in the dream I found out I was pregnant. I had a panic attack for a good 45 minutes. I tried to pray for peace but I am still freaked out today. I know I am psyching myself up for no reason but finding out that I am pregnant may cause me to totally freak. Why? Because this means that there is no going back now.
My senior English teacher told me "That the greatest journeys begin with good-bye." Which means that in order for the next phase to begin we have to learn to let go of something else. We are about to enter the greatest joy of our life-moving into our first home, starting a family. And although I look forward to this moment, I am still a little freaked. I try to act all tough with Jeff-someone has to be the rock right?!? And trust me, if I told him I was freaking out-he would say then we need to wait. But of course, waiting is not really an option because neither one of us are getting any younger.
So I ask you all to pray for us. Pray that for the next 45 days (that is when my pill runs out-and I am NOT renewing it!) that we will take life one day at a time. Pray that Jeff and I will be at peace with where God leads us. Pray that we will be joyful as we embark on the greatest but biggest change thus far.
And before I forget to tell you-I am so thankful that God is the one constant that won't change! And one more thing I keep telling myself "If Jodi, Maurine, Kendra and Rachel can do it so can I!" (Love you chicks!)
Friday, November 03, 2006
How Quirky Are You?
| Your Quirk Factor: 33% |
![]() You have a few little quirks, but you generally blend in well with society. Only those who know you well know how weird you can be. |
Thursday, November 02, 2006
Thursday Thirteen: WHY?!?!
Wednesday, November 01, 2006
I Choose You!

I was on the phone today with Jodi-Reagan's Mom. In the background I heard little Reagan singing.
Me: "Is that Reagan?"
Jodi: "Yeah, she is singing herself to sleep!"
Me: "Elijah does the same thing!
(I was thinking, "These two will be married one day!")
And you see from the picture that Elijah totally agrees!!
He is pointing to Reagan saying " I choose you!"
So one day at Deer Run, Reagan will catch Elijah on Sadie Hawkins day and the rest as they say, will be history!!!
Why the Prayer Journal Works For Me!
I became intrigued with this idea. I started to write and write I did. I now have close to 50 journals-some I have kept-some I have thrown away. But the prayer journal has become my way of documenting my journey.
The year I met Jeff-I started to pray for a husband on a nightly bases. I have each prayer written down. I will give to him one day-he knows they are there-I just think it would be a neat anniversary gift, when the time is right. So I am holding on to them. When we started to date-I wrote out each little detail. A couple of weeks before the wedding- I freaked out-thought I would call the whole thing off-I prayed it out in my prayer journal. I walked down the aisle and never looked back. I just knew that it was the right thing.
I have had highs and lows and those moments in between but God has been there through it all. I have shared my deepest darkest fears, my funny moments of my days, my happy moments, my sad moments and still God has been there.
Recently I started listing my prayer request in one sentence lines-and then writing out the bible verse that was laid on my heart that coincidently enough coincided with my prayer request. I memorized the scripture and throughout my day- that same scripture will pop up and I will think "Oh that belongs to so and so-they must need me to pray over them" Then I pray-I could be walking through Wal-Mart and the name or scripture pops into my head so I start to pray.
"Draw Near to God and He will Draw Near to You!" James 4:8
I believe this to be true. Because I have allowed my self to be drawn into a time of prayer with my heart, mind and soul-I am closer to God. Atleast that is what I choose to believe. One of the greatest compliments ever given to me was by a friend who told another friend in my presence, "If she says she is praying for you she is and she has the pages to proove it!"
So I will continue to pray, continue to write and one day will lavish the moment when I can write Amen and the date next to a prayer request for myself or for others. Because God will answer our prayers when His timing is right!
Tuesday, October 31, 2006
Tuesday Thanksgivings!
The last few weeks have been a trial for Jeff. But God has been faithful to him. God has brought men into his life to walk with him-to show him what it means to be the spiritual leader. You see not only is he my husband but the oldest of his family. He has been given many oppurtunities to lead in his life-he just hasn't always taken them. Jeff is not a natural take charge kind of person. He is content to let me take the lead. Which because of my natural ability to "take charge" I just do it sometimes-most of the time without waiting for Jeff to step up.
But here is how God has changed each of us. He has shown Jeff what it means to be a spiritual leader while at the same time shown me the importance of waiting for Jeff. And I have been waiting-as many of you know-I hate to wait. But over the last few months amazing things have started to happen. Jeff is more quick to the take the lead and I am gaining a peace inside me that allows me to sit still and wait.
I believe that God has used this moment in our life to prepare us for the road ahead. I am thankful today because last night I saw a glimpse of the spiritual leader I have been praying for over the last 3 years. I saw God's workmanship taking shape before my eyes. I often pray Psalms 112 over Jeff. (A great psalm for all husbands out there-I call it Proverbs 31 for men) And in his life, I am seeing many of the scriptures taken shape in how he deals with family, friends and strangers.
For his growth and leadership-I am thankful!
Jeff,
Thank you for taking the lead-for allowing God to mold you into a man after His own heart.
I am proud of you!
With all my love,
Susan
Monday, October 30, 2006
The Princess, The Ladybug and The Lion


Saturday my sister in law, mom and myself took the kids to the Dallas Arboretum to get their annual Fall Pictures. This year Missy let them go in costume-which made the pictures all the more cuter.
This time last year Elijah was still growing inside Missy and we couldn't stay as long because she could hardly walk. No wonder since he turned out to be close to a 10 pound baby. This year-he is laughing, growling (he is a lion after all) and pointing to tell you which way to go.
Katelyn is a lot more social than she was last year. She always has a smile on her face. She can be shy at times but it is my opinion that she is growing out of that. She loves butterflies! We had to stop a few times so she could see the butterflies that were flying around.
Faith loves to pose for the camera. She is a ham! Throughout the day she would say, "Mom or Sue Sue is this a good pose?" We of course, just went with it and snapped the picture. We pray she makes it to her teenage years-she is a strong willed child after all. So say an extra prayer for Mom and Dad- I am sure they would appreciate it!
I am working on putting a slide show together so you can see all the pictures. I will be trick or treating with the kids on Halloween this year so I think I will wait until I get those pictures. Have a Happy Halloween (or in our house Fall Festival) and remember it's not the tricks but the treats we crave!







