Going to the Hospital

Scared you didn't I? It's not me that needs the hospital, not Jeff either-it's my poor computer. Just wanted to let blogland know since I will be out of the blog world until my computer is returned. I am praying it won't be too long since this is my main source for work.

Wish us luck!!

Thirteen Things I Did This Summer

1. Slept In-Last Semester was a rough one-it was nice being able to sleep in
2. Sunday Matinee Movies-Hubby and I went every Sunday this summer since our Sunday Bible Study was on hiatus for the summer
3. Scrapbook Weekend-The Scrapping Chicks and I went away for our bi-annual get away. It was soooo much fun!
4. Baby Showers, Baby Showers and what do you know...more baby showers- Seriously it has been insane, I went out and bought bulk presents so I could try to save more money, plus I am hoping that all these beautiful ladies will remember me when that time comes for us. Shameless I know!
5. The Patriarchs-by Beth Moore- a group of ladies in the community and myself gathered together every Tuesday morning for the bible study. We met at 6:30 am-I only missed once-it was THAT good!
6. Took Hayley, our niece to her first time at Deer Run-I feel old and it was hard not to be able to stay with her
7. July 4th Celebration-This is a Young family Tradition-it was fabulous as usual.
8. Birthday Celebrations-Hubby turned 36, Mom Bonner, my great grandmother-turned 97 and Martha, my cousin turned 13 (going on 20)all in the same week
9. Read A Bunch Of Books-I read 40 plus books this summer to challenge myself, I have too many to say which one was my favorite. I will do a TT13 one day with my favorite 13
10. Road Trip 2006-see our Road Trip Blog for the trip write up. I am still working on it so it is not fully updated.
11. Prayed- This was a growing summer for me. God changed my heart in so many ways-needless to say-I prayed many, many times day and night. The good news is-God is faithful and has seen me through
12. Taught Sunday School-Jeff and I teach the 3-4 year olds at our church once a month-it has been fun watching J with the kids
13. Enjoyed myself immenselyI hate to see the summer come to an end but as usual we lived it up as best as we could.

I just added a cool video to our Road Trip Blog to share our complete trip-feel free to check it out. After viewing this you will understand why I said in #13 that I enjoyed myself immensely!

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Sexin and Shewee!

These two words, sexin and shewee are not words that show up in my blog-but they are on my cousin Paige's blog. I am looking for any excuse to add these to my blog since our house does not use such fantastic words. I guess that is one of the benefits for having little ones at your house. I am posting these words now before I do my word cloud to see if they will make mine. Now wouldn't that be funny!?! If you are looking for funny posts about kids, see Paige-you won't find these here-since I have yet to start populating the earth with my sweet hubby!

Here is the results of my word cloud...


Look what made it!!!

WORDLESS WEDNESDAY:TOURISTS

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God will see YOU through!!

"I have set my rainbow in the clouds, and it will be the sign of the covenant between me and you and all living creatures of every kind. Never again will waters become a flood to destroy life. Whenever the rainbow appears in the clouds, I will see it and remember the everlasting covenant between God and all living creatures of every kind on the earth."
Genesis 9:13-16

As we were driving home from our vacation on Sunday-I saw two rainbows on two different days. I was blessed. Long ago as I was driving to my first year at ACU-my mom and I saw a rainbow in the sky. As we were driving Mom reminded me of this verse and that God would keep his promises. Years later driving home from another road trip to New Orleans (summer before hurricane) Jeff and I saw a rainbow in the sky right after we had a close encounter with a car. The other car flipped in front of us on a two lane highway but Jeff and I made it through without a scratch or dent. I cried when I saw the rainbow in the sky. Oh and the people in the other car, although it flipped and landed upright,also walked away without a scratch. God protects us!

God does keep His promises. God will see us through every storm in life. God will walk beside us, will comfort us and will provide for us when life gets to be too much. God knew we would have those days that just plain suck. God knew that we would need to be reminded after the stroms of life that He is there. That is why each time I see a rainbow in the sky, I take a moment to praise God. Because I know that God will see me through whatever storm may come.

Jeff and I have just walked through the roughest season of our marriage but God has been faithful, He has seen us through. This past week when I saw the rainbows in the sky I was thankful for the reminder that God saw us through this strom in our life and He will see us through many more. I pray today for each of you who come across this post. May you see the rainbows and know that God will see you through whatever storms may come to you.

God Bless
Susan

MOUNT RUSHMORE HERE WE COME!

 

Soon we will be hitting the open road for the 3rd annual Young family vacation. We have bought the essential road trip paraphernalia and are ready to go.

Here is the TOP 10 Essentials to Cross Country Driving!


1. Books on Tape-figure for every 8 hours in the car you need 1 book. I rented 4. Make sure you get something that you and hubby will both enjoy. Mind you we have no kids at this point, so we listen to what we choose-no Veggie Tales or Barney on this trip.

2. Magazines-I just picked up the latest Martha Stewart Living-the special Decorating Issue and I CAN NOT WAIT TO READ THIS!

3. IPOD-We have his and hers so we trade off listening to his music and mine. Great thing is I like all kinds-hubby on the other hand is a Van Halen fan all the way-so Van is what you get on his turn.

4. Yummy Snack foods that won't melt in the car- I love Trail Mix bags because you have a little sweet and you have a little salty all mixed up into one. Cheese and PB crackers and apples. We are trying NOT to eat our weight in junk so no junk in my trunk this week!

5. Water and Caffeine-This way we do not have to spend $2 at the rest stop vending machine-instead we spend $4 to last us the whole trip.

6. Igloo-got to keep your stuff cool! It's so freakin hot!

7. Camera-You never know when you may see a Kodak moment-so you best have it charged and ready to go. Last year we pulled off at Bill Clinton's Boy Hood home and took a picture. Good thing the camera was charged!

8. Battery operated light for reading- I love to read, day or night and I just may want to skim some pages at night-so you need the light at night

9. Atlas-Hubby and I are known for taking the scenic route so we have to have the map just in case we get lost. I got lost going from Winnsboro to Paris, TX and this map saved my life-not to mention it was 3 in the morning by the time I got there!

10. Rental car-Why put 4800 miles on your car?! That's crazy!

And one to grow on... LAPTOP
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Confessions of a Happy Housewife

 

I have always admired someone who can keep a clean home. I want to be that person, really I do but I am having a hard time getting motivated. We aren't dirty people just cluttered. I recently joined Flylady and started the whole process with such gusto that hubby was actually amazed with how clean our house looked. I guess you can say I fell off the wagon. It doesn't help that we live in a one bedroom apartment and my living room serves as my office. I work for Ashley Furniture and we often comment that Ashley has overtaken us! I can guarantee you that our first child will not be named Ashley. Because each time we called the child's name-there would be gnashing of teeth-somehow that does not seem right to put our child through that.

Anyways-we are about to embark on a six state tour traveling to Mount Rushmore and when I get back school starts. (I am in the process of finishing my degree!) So my motivation to get my house in gear has kicked up a notch. Already I have washed a load of laundry, emptied the dishwasher, cleaned out a little section off my desk, emptied the trash cans and will be vaccuming before the day is done. I know how much better I will feel when my house is back in order. Plus, the joy that will come from walking into my house after a long journey and see it all cleaned ready to go.
Now if that is not motivation I don't know what is!

Maybe if I get brave I will do a before and after picture of my living room, office and dining room-they are all entwined together. One day soon, 6 months to be exact, we will be in a house and hopefully this phase of my life will help me in establishing routines and what not for keeing a happy, organized home. But until that time comes I am off to clean! 

Thirteen Things that Can Always Get Me Movin!

 

1. Thriller-Micheal Jackson
My cousins had the video and it used to scare the heeby-jeebies out of me! I loved it in 13 going on 30 when Jennifer's character gets everyone to dance. Priceless

2. Jesse's Girl-Rick Springfield
This is on my "Happy" playlist on the IPOD. It always gets me moving!

3. Bootylicious-Destiny's Child
Random song I know but you just have to know me to really understand!

4. ABC-The Jackson 5
This was an all time favorite for the girls on the 3rd floor in Nelson hall!

5. Shackles-Mary Mary
During the Bible Study by Beth Moore titled "Breaking Free" this song came on my radio during a very intense moment with God and ever since, this has served as my reminder that I have been broken free and I need to praise God with dancing a jig! (Giggles)

6. Gettin' Jiggy with It-Will Smith
When this song starts your body will move just like this: Shoulders bouncing, add a little rock back and forth, and finish with side step-the for the grand finale a big spin around the room.

7. U Can't Touch This-M.C Hammer
"My My My Music Hits me So Hard Makes Me Say, "Oh My Lord!"
Try to sit still when this song is playing in the background.

8. Girls Just Want to Have Fun-Cyndi Lauper
Name a girl that didn't dance to this at the slumber parties with her best friends. Now each Christmas my cousin and I sing this for the family thanks to the Karoke machine-(Sending a shout out to you Brandy!)

9. Take a Chance on Me-Erasure
I thought I was so cool in high school because a friend of mine asked me to choreograph a dance for her officer tryout in drill team. I don't think she made it!!! Is that sad or what?!? Could it of been my dance I did for her?!? Probably OOPS! Sorry Kelly!

10. Crazy In Love-Beyonce
There is a reason I list this and here it is! This song is on my IPOD, the other day I was walking on the treadmill at our local gym. The song started and I was struting my stuff like I was a runway model or something. I laughed out loud be/c I was moving with the beat-no worries, I did not start bouncing my booty like Beyonce.

11. I am Your Boogie Man-KC and the Sunshine Band
Another high school story-It was 70's day during football season. The pep rally was in full swing... I was pulled out of the crowd to dance with my friend Ben to this song. You would of thought we had just walked out of "Saturday Night Fever." In my mind, I see us dancing very well and everyone stopping to watch us move up and down the gym floor. Just kidding, the truth is we fell all over each other b/c have you ever tried dancing in platform heels?! No THANKS, MAN! NOT COOL!

12. Dancing Queen-ABBA
My other fantasy as a kid was dancing on Soul Train, although, I don't know if this would of been a song choice for the show but for me, "I am the Dancing Queen, Young and Lean, Only 17!"

13. Don't Stop Till you Get Enough-Micheal Jackson
"OOOH!" says Michael Jackson in a high pitch voice that makes you think he is part man, part cat!

And One to Grow on...
Remember this:
Hanging Touch, Step by Step, You've Got The (Right Stuff) New Kids on the Block
"We are going to put you in a trance with the funky song, stand tough, stand tough, are you tough enough? We're ROUGH, ROUGH!" From You've Got the Right Stuff

Girls all over the world in the late 80's early 90's can all remember dancing to this with thier friends and crying into thier NKOTB pillow at night. I had a Donny and Joey crush? What about you??


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WWFMW: Design on A Dime

 


I have always been a big fan of the Pottery Barn, Crate and Barrell and the Ethan Allen look-yet I don't like to spend the money! I used to be a furniture buyer for a small "Mom and Pop" store and realized that all small manufactors knock off the big guys like Pottery Barn and Crate and Barell. So what I have done is develop a "Design on A Dime" notebook from pictures I have printed on the internet or from catalogs and magazines I like. So when it comes time to decorate the holidays or I get the urge to redecorate a room-I first flip through my notebook. Then I go find the look for half the price. Design on a Dime comes in when I don't buy just to buy but think it out before I purchase.

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Seeing Oppurtunities in the Middle of It All

"In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity."~ Albert Einstein ~

I was 21-young and ambitious, maybe a little too ambitious. I wanted it all-a college degree, living out on my own, working a full time job and a full social calendar. Soon reality sunk in. I was run down, cranky and failing almost all of my classes, not to mention working every extra minute so that I could just get by. Social Life? Yeah right, I had no time. I was doing good just to get through the next day and even that was getting harder with each passing day.

I prayed. I searched. I kept falling behind. I prayed. I searched. I was blessed because God provided for my basic needs: food, clothing, shelter. Yet there was still something missing. After months of just "getting by" I gave up. I wish I could say the Lord opened my eyes and I realized I was not where the Lord wanted me and quickly got back on course. I was flying down one track and that was my own. My ideas and motives were selfish and pulling me down deeper and deeper into a bottomless pit. I kept praying but it was always for the Lord to fix the mess I made. What I didn't realize is that if I wanted this "mess" to be fixed I would have to stop moving and sit still long enough for God to unwind the tangled mess I had weaved. I was tightly wound and the untangling would take years. Ten years later I am still reaping what I sowed.

"In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity."~ Albert Einstein ~

Take a moment and turn with me to the path I have just come from. Along this path of self destruction there are these wonderful mirages peppered through out my path when the journey becamemore than I could bare. Blessings upon blessings that I could not see in the midst of it all. I was not able to see because my focus was not on God's blessings but my life. Me. It was all about me.

"Draw Near to God and He Will Draw Near to You." James 4:8

Oh, dear friend, my life changed when I stopped running. My life changed when I drew to the one person who could take my difficulty and make into an oppurtunity. You may find this hard to believe but one day I believe you will, oh I pray you will. Ready? What I am about to share with you is the verse that kept me moving forward and NOT giving up.

"For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us and eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen but what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal."

2 Cornthians 4:17-18

So I hope you continue your journey today realizing that God has an eternal plan that outweighs all the junk of this world. I pray that my story can be a motivator for you to stop running and draw near to God. HE WILL DRAW NEAR TO YOU!

Is the Grass Really Greener on the Other Side?!?!

For everytime...

...a single person looks at a married couple and thinks, "I wish I was married." The married person could be thinking, "I wish I was single."

...a young married couple without kids looks at a couple with kids and thinks, "I wish I had a child." The couple with kids could be thinking, "I wish I had thier freedom."

...a mother with a house full of teenagers may envy the woman with an empty nest, while the woman with empty nest may be longing for the days where the sounds of teenagers filled her house.

...a young exectutive may wish that it was him retiring instead of his boss, while the boss may be wishing he was starting out again like the young executive.

Just remember that "There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven." Ecclesiastes 3:1 So the next time you find yourself wondering if the grass is greener on the other side, remember that maybe someone is watching you wishing they were in your shoes!

God Bless~
Susan!

The Things You Will Endure to Save A Buck!!

My husband and I are frugal people. We love to save on the bottom line. We would rather wait to watch a movie at the local dollar theatre than see it when it first comes out like everyone else. Why? We save $10 sometimes $12 dollars, if we go on 50 cent movie night.

But last night's adventure was a little too much for me. I should of known this was going to be bad when a little boy maybe 2 almost 3 standing in line in front of us is only wearing a tee-shirt and diaper. No shoes, no shorts. And he was walking around barefoot on the nasty parking lot! Plus it was a 10 o'clock p.m movie. Now I am not a parent but I ask you parents out there in blog land, shouldn't little kids that age be in BED!!

It gets better I promise you! As we are standing in line I realize the movie we are about to see (Davinci Code) is quite long so I better empty my bladder. The bathroom was disgusting! I almost called it quits right there as I skimmed to find one stall with a toilet flushed and minimal paper on the floor and other stuff that I will not subject you to!

So the movie starts and this small family walks in during the middle of the opening scene maybe even later than that, carrying in a one year old child. At this point it is probably 10:30 at night. The baby did not want to be there. SHE CRIED THE WHOLE TIME! Finally a lady sitting behind us says, "That's it! You can't watch a movie with a crying baby in the room!" And storms out of the theatre. In her quest to get up angrily her jacket gets caught on the seat and when she yanks it free, she hits poor hubby in the head! But thankfully she went and got the police (yes they are a must at the movie theater I am afraid!) and manager who did a walk through of the theatre. But the family left before they came in since I am sure they heard this lady as she stormed out of the theatre. Next time get a babysitter or rent the movie! Or go earlier when the baby is not ready for BED!

All in all the movie was not bad-of course we watched it knowing it was pure fiction and nothing else. If you have questions whether this movie is true or not-let me say it is NOT and if you need further proof-READ YOUR BIBLE!!

God Bless-
Susan!

Step Away from the Blog!!!

I am obsessed with this blog thing! I have had a great visit of sorts with old friends today, yet until they read their comments they will not know I was there. I have many, many friends from ACU that I have lost contact with over the years. Some of them I did not even know that they know go by the title, "Mom and Dad." But today I was able to see pictures of the babies and read the latest things that have taken place in the their little portion of the world over the last few years.

As I read, the classic song by Michael W Smith began playing in my head. "Friends are Friends forever if the Lord's the Lord of them." I often get sad because of location or passage of time I am unable to catch up with these friends. But one day we will have a whole eternity to catch up with each other in Heaven.

But until then I will have to settle for surfing everyone's blog. If you stopped by because of the comments I left to you. Please leave your comment so I can know you came by to my neck of the woods.

Surprisingly this blog things reminds me of living in the dorms when we would go visit someone and leave a note on the dry erase board posted to their door. Thanks to my sweet Paige my dry erase board was the cutest on the block-with it's buttons clustered all over the frame!

Thirteen Things that Make me Smile

I woke this morning feeling sick to my stomach and cranky! And it didn't help hearing the Threat level has been moved up to level RED!! (Lord, Protect us!) So this list has been complied in order to help me get out of my funk!

1. My husband's dancing! He has no rhythm and has no shame all wrapped up into one-a perfect combination for someone with no dancing skill! He will dance for me if I get cranky and each time it sends me into fits of laughter!
2. Sonic Cherry Cokes! My family teases me because they say I have Sonic Radar-I can guide you to the nearest Sonic anywhere in the USA!
3. A good quiet time with Lord! I should of put this first but I am writing as it comes to me. I love those days where you meet with the Lord and know that you have just entered into His presence. Sometimes I just sit knowing that no words can be said to Him that He does not already know-so just sitting-meditating on Him brings a smile to my face.
4. Weekend Scrapbook Retreats-I have a group of friends (who were strangers BEFORE we started scrapbooking together) we get together every six months at this small bed and breakfast. We scrapbook, talk, laugh, eat, watch chick flicks and repeat the list over and over again. We have gone twice now with one another one coming in November and I think we all have started making this a priority to get away together.
5. My nieces and nephew! My husband and I really enjoy being called the "cool aunt and uncle." We cherish these moments with our 3 girls and little nephew because one day when we have kids our priorities will be different but for today we enjoy watching them laugh and grow.
6. My nephew Elijah is 8 months old and started waving bye to me last night when I was leaving his house after a visit with the family. He also has started doing this cute little "puppy head cock" to the left when you are talking to him. It is not often but when he does it he looks so cute like "What did you say?" He also woke up from his nap and my sister-in-law passed him to me but he was not fully awake so he and I got to cuddle for a few minutes. Precious!!
7. Okay one more about the kids! Faith started 2nd grade yesterday, the night before I called her to see if she was getting ready for her first day. Here is the conversation:

"Faith what are you doing?"

"I am watching "Full House."

"You better watch tons of TV because school starts tomorrow."

"I know why do you think I am watching Full House."

Later I asked her if her friend was going to be in her class this year. They are known for NOT getting along! She said, "No she is at the new school this year." I said "Well that is an answer to prayer isn't it?" She then replies, "Oh yes it is! God does answer prayers!!!"

8. Bonus checks "Just Because" I have had two of these sent to me in my career. My boss is a wonderful lady and often times will reward me if she fills I have gone over and beyond the call of duty for her. Not many bosses do this so this does make me smile. I am so blessed to work out of my home and for such caring people!!

9. Answered prayer! My friend Chandra's son Canon needed a liver transplant. After months of praying, crying, waiting and more praying he received one. To see him laughing and smiling makes me laugh and smile. To learn more visit: Canon's website Let me warn you to carry a Kleenex and give yourself time to read all of Chandra's journals. She will inspire you!

10. Harold's Warehouse sale. This seems shallow after writing about Canon but Chandra will fully understand. Since Harold's is a favorite for her too! Great clothes for 1/4 of their regular price. It comes around once maybe twice a year so if you live in DFW area and love Harold's clothing. Sign up at the website to receive special offers via email.

11. Calls from old friends. I just received one from my friend Lauren-we have been friends since we were in 1st grade. What a way to turn my frown upside down today!

12. Football season: My husband, his dad and brother are HUGE San Diego Chargers fans! And I mean HUGE! Every Sunday they get together to watch the game and boy howdy does it get loud. My FIL is very quiet but NOT when he is watching the Chargers. I love his enthusiasm! Precious, just precious!

13. Road trips with hubby! We have just got notice that we can both take vacation so we are headed to San Diego in a few weeks to catch a pre-season game and for my husband to show me his favorite digs in San Diego. I can't wait to have that one on one time away from life as we know it!

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Works for Me...Kitchen Timer

This is my first 'It works for me Wednesday" post so here it goes! What works for me is my kitchen timer. Let me explain, I work at home and I have lots of people who count on me to get my work done in a timely manner. It would be easy for me to do nothing but since I enjoy working at home, I do not want to jeopardize my job in anyway. I am easily side tracked so I came up with this new system to help me stay focused.

Each day I wake up at the same time, have my daily devotional time then I get dressed first thing (make-up, clothes including shoes and hair done) then I start my work day. I try to start and end my day at the same time each day. This way I am not stuck working 24-7 just because it is in my home. From the start of my day, I set my timer for 45 minutes and during that 45 minutes I work without distraction. Then when the timer goes off, I reset it for 15 minutes and step away from the computer. During this time I start a load of laundry, check my personal email or call a friend to chat. But when the 15 minutes is done I start another 45 minutes and get back to work.

I realize some of you may be thinking this is a very rigid way to live out your day. But for me it has allowed me to do more away from my work at night. Spend time with my family, read a book or blog to all of you! Plus I have the peace of mind knowing I am getting all accomplished for my job!

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I HATE WATERBUGS!!

I hate waterbugs a.k.a. nasty roach beasts! Recently I have two terrifying experiences with these nasty beasts and tonight's took the cake.

The first one was a few weeks back. I was watching television in my room when out of the corner of my eye I saw something fly by. "What was that?" Then all of sudden, I look down and there is this big, ugly roach like beast crawling towards me.

"EEEEEEEEEEWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!! OH MY GOSH! OH MY GOSH! OH MY GOSH! This was said over and over while I was drastically flapping my sheets trying to get the bug to GET OFF OF ME!!! Timidly I run out to my kitchen and grab the "Handy Dandy Bug Spray" and leap on my bed because I greatly feared being attacked by this beast. A few minutes pass by, long enough for me to relax and return my attention to the TV show. And again I see a flying object. "Is it a bird? Is it a plane? No it is the disgusting roach beast." But now I am armed so I start spraying like it is Lysol. (I know all about the warnings on the back of the can, please don't contact me with a list of why I should not have done this!) And instead of dying, the roach beast starts scrambling around like it is on speed or something. I was horrified! So I kept spraying. From one side of the room to the next it kept rushing around, I know it was dying but it was kind of amusing to watch. Finally it died and I became "Wonder Woman" with my broom in hand and scooped up the bug and flushed it down the toilet! Whoosh!!

On to tonight's sighting. This time it was next door at my mom's. (Yes I have already told you! We live next door! I swear one day I will give you the scoop but I must stay on topic!) I needed to borrow her step ladder to finish my closet organization closet. See last weeks 13 things for full scoop. Anyway I could not find where she put it, she was not home at the time. And don't worry I called her BEFORE I went over there. She just wasn't home!! Low and behold another waterbug was hanging out in her bathroom. I ran next door, grabbed my "Handy Dandy Bug Spray" and whisked back to save the day at her place. But this time the bug would not die! So I kept spraying! I know, I know, I read the back label I am just choosing to ignore it. Finally it landed on her bath mat but it was still squirming. So I drug the bath mat to the door to toss it outside. Whoosh! Unfortunately it did not Whoosh! It FLOPPED! Right on the tile entry way. I thought "No problem" Grab the broom and whisk it outside. I took my golf club a.k.a broom and pulled back to whack it good! It glided to a stop at the step coming into the front door. Again, I pull back...and again nothing. Finally I grab the dust pan and granny flopped it out the door. All the while saying, "Oh my gosh! Oh my gosh! Oh my gosh!"

I am heading down to the office first thing to get them to call that exterminator that they rave about!

"In Other Words"

"Remember, we all stumble, every one of us. That's why it's a comfort to go hand in hand."~ Emily Kimbrough ~

"Two are better than one, because they have a good return for thier work. If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up!"

Ecclesiastes 4: 9-10

Lord, thank you for my friends who walks beside me through good times and in bad. Thank you for my friend who is willing to pray with me and love me instead of hurt me and judge me. Thank you for my friend who makes me laugh when I am sad and allows me to vent when I am mad. Thank you for my friend who encourages me to be a better wife, friend and follower of Jesus. Thank you for my friend that does not waste my time with meaningless gossip but will tell me what the Lord has revealed to her today and then asks what He has revealed to me. Thank you for my friend who calls me to lunch, scrapbook and a cup of coffee. Thank you for my friend who does not put down her husband when we are lunching, scrapbooking and sharing a cup of coffee but lifts up praise just because the Bible tells her so. Thank you for my friend who when they know I am having a rough day offers to pray that the next day will be better and then calls the next day to make sure that my day is much better. Thank you for my friend who before arriving to my house will stop by the local Sonic and get my favorite drink because she loves to see a smile on my face. Thank you for my friend who encourages me to keep doing the ministry I have been called to no matter what others may say. It is because of friends like these that I feel so blessed to call them "Sisters in Christ."

Thank you sweet friends, you know who you are!!

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The Storm-Part 2

"He stilled the storm to a whisper; the waves of the sea were hushed. They were glad when it grew calm, and he guided them to their desired haven."

Psalms 107: 29-30

Yesterday I left off with the day God changed me and showed me that He would be the one to fight for me. You may think that after this divine appointment that I would of began a life of peace and joy, knowing God was fully in control of the outcome. Friends, this was not so. The battle grew worse inside me! Spiritual Warfare perhaps??

I continued to pray day and night that God would show J and I direction. What was His plan? His reason for this season?

I solicited prayers from my women's bible study group. My prayer request each week was this, "That we would be open to the plan God had for us." But my prayer focus was always J never myself. I just knew that my way was God's way so eventually J would come on board. But God does not take kindly to us dictating to Him the plan for our lives.

During the next few weeks God began a mighty work in me. One day after weeks of being silent-J came to me willing to help me get the answers we would need to make a healthy decision for our "life altering experience". I saw this as a huge answer to prayer. We met with a "life altering expert" and the meeting did not go my way. Needless to say I was hurt, scared, angry all at the same time.

But let me rewind just a little bit. The night before the "life altering appointment" I began to read "Lies Women Believe and the Truth That Sets Them Free" by Nancy Leigh Demoss. (Ladies, this is a must READ!) This book covers a series of lies that we have been told throughout our life and then counter acts with the truth from the Word of God.

Here is the lie that I have believed all my life: "God Should Fix My Problems."

But the truth is: "Life is hard. God is more concerned about glorifying Himself and changing me than solving all my problems. God has an eternal purpose He is fulfilling in the midst of my problems." (page 59) Talk about hitting you over the head!

I sat on my floor dumbfounded and prayed, "Lord do I have the Genie in the Bottle mentality? Do I only trust you when things are going my way? Or do I trust you no matter what comes my way?"

So fast forward to after we walked out of the "life altering" office. J reaches for me and says, "Talk to me!" And I said in a not so gentle voice. "Not now, I need time to process this." When in actuality God and I were having a heart-to-heart that went something like this:

God-"Child, do you trust me?"

Me-"I want to but I..."

God-"No buts, yes or no. Do you trust me?"

Me-"Yes, I do trust you."

God- "Then let go and let me do what I have been saying I will do."

Later that afternoon, J and I had the best conversation we had in years. And guess what, we both walked away with two things, direction and a new prayer focus. So Sunday during my quiet time, Psalms 107:29-30, was the perfect verse to wrap up this last week. God has calmed the storm.

The Storm-Part 1

"He stilled the storm to a whisper; the waves of the sea were hushed. They were glad when it grew calm, and he guided them to their desired haven." Psalm 107:29-32

I must admit that tonight I am at a loss for words. There is so much that I want to share but not sure where to begin. All I know is that I have a need to get some words from my heart to this page. Over the summer I have been reading a Psalms a day-today I read Psalms 107. The above is a little part of what I read today and I must admit it brought a tear to my eye.

The last few months have been a roller coaster ride for my husband and I. Many changes and decisions are being made now that we like to call, "life altering." Many times I feel one way and he feels another-we are on two different sides of the field most days, ready to duke it out. During the spring, I started to pray with a dear friend who has encouraged me to not bring my issues to J without first bringing them to God. And when I say "bringing it to God" I mean leaving it at His feet and me keeping silent in this process, while God did the work. Well if you know me, you know that silence is not my forte! Let's just say a storm was raging in my heart. At one point, I was about ready to burst. Anger would be a mild description for what I was feeling-rage would be more like it. But I knew that I could not and would not take this out on my husband-although it would of felt so good to whack him upside the head repeatedly until he saw things my way. I woke up early one morning after a night spent tossing and turning in bed. I pulled on my running shoes, tied my hair back and was off to "beat the pavement" almost literally. When I got home, there was a note on my door from my mom. (She lives next door, that is another post all together-and no it is not the reason for J and I's roller coaster ride!)

The note said, "S and J-Exodus 14:13-14, You are in God's hands-be faithful! Be hopeful! He will be your strength! Mom!

I immediately went to look up Exodus 14:13-14.

It says, "Moses answered the people, "Do not be afraid. Stand firm and you will see the deliverance the Lord will bring you today...The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still."

I sat down at my kitchen table and wept. You see, during my run, I kept hearing a little voice inside me saying, "Lay it down! Lay it down! Be still and know that I am God! Be still and know that I am God!" Yet I did not want to listen. Exodus 14:13-14 was my confirmation that it was time to let God fight for me and for me to be still. That day changed everything for me. For the first time, I decided to let God fight for me!

To Be Continued...

Thirteen Things to Replace My Television

During the month of August, I have decided to turn off the television because of a challenge from Nancy Leigh Demoss's ministry, Reviveourhearts.com

So today I have taken a moment to compile a list of thirteen things to keep me from turning on the television.

1. Scrapbook-Avid scrapbookers always seem to be months behind so why not try to finish a few pages while I have a few minutes to spare.
2. Read a good book-I love to read. The problem is, I have become used to watching t.v and reading a good book. Talk about multi-tasking.
3. Blog-my television is off right now as I type-so when I get the urge to sit in front of the screen why not sit in front of my computer screen.
4. Take a walk-Prime Time is always my time to sit down and unwind-why not take a walk instead. God knows it would be cooler during prime time than in the middle of the day-wouldn't it?
5. Organize my closet- I could sub the time I would be sitting in front of the television doing nothing- by taking time to clean out my closet. Now wouldn't that be nice!
6. Bake-I received Martha Stewart's Baking Handbook for Christmas and there are still so many recipes that I want to try! Since I have some free time now, why not?!
7. Write a letter-when was the last time you received a letter via snail mail, just because. What a lost art letter writing has become! I am going to sit myself down and write a letter
8. Finger Paint-Why can't I do this? Yes, it's true that most adults would not choose to get dirty but why do kids get to have all the fun?!
9. Study! unfortunately I will have to start studying again at the end of August since I am working on getting my degree...Once again.
10. Barnes and Noble-take a drive to the local B & N to flip through my favorite magazines
11. Call my husband- He works nights and I can talk to him during his lunch hour which is during prime time. It's fun because it is almost like we are dating-talking over the phone about nothing important
12. Listen to the radio- My new thing is Christian talk radio- oneplace.com is the best place to listen to your favorite minister's radio shows. Try Kay Arthur, Nancy Leigh Demoss, Elizabeth George, James Dobson, Family Life Today, Beth Moore to name a few
13. Study my Bible-it is amazing the things God can show you when you turn the television off and listen to His voice
    
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