Merry Christmas to Little Ole Me!

I just won this Sizzix "Funky Brush" set on EBAY! I was the only bidder and I bought for more than half off the price they sell at Micheal's even with the 50% off coupon. It is almost like it was meant to be or something.

Anyways this is cause for celebration in my house so I just had to share the good news. Scrappy Chicks- I look forward to sharing this with all of you next time we get away to crop!

"In Other Words"

"One response was given by the innkeeper when Mary and Joseph wanted to find a room where the Child could be born. The innkeeper was not hostile; he was not opposed to them, but his inn was crowded; his hands were full; his mind was preoccupied. This is the answer that millions are giving today. Like a Bethlehem innkeeper, they cannot find room for Christ. All the accommodations in their hearts are already taken up by other crowding interests. Their response is not atheism. It is not defiance. It is preoccupation and the feeling of being able to get on reasonably well without Christianity."~ Billy Graham ~

What does Christmas mean to you? Does it mean constant celebration? The Hustle and Bustle of Christmas shopping? Or does it mean quiet reflection for all that God has done for you in the past year?

Between setting up our Christmas tree, writing our Christmas letter, shopping for loved ones and watching my favorite holiday movies-I have forgotten something. I hate to admit that today was the first time in over a week that I set down to have a quiet time. I became too busy with preparing for Christmas that I pushed my quiet time to the back burner.

I don't want to become like the innkeeper and fill up my day with so many things that I forget to save room for Jesus. Instead I want Jesus to hold a place of honor in my house. I want for His birth to be our reason for celebration and focus on this more than the gifts under my tree, the look of the house or putting the letter in everyone's mailbox faster than a speeding bullet.

I am going to take time to read the scriptures. To meditate on all that God has done for us this year and to study up on Advent. By the way, my church growing up did not emphasize advent or if they did, I wasn't paying attention. (That is quite possible) So if anyone has any suggestions on a book that explains Advent in detail I would greatly appreciate your help. A children's book is really what I am looking for so that I can keep it simple in my head and read it to my children one day.

God bless!

Susan

For more "In Other Words" or to write your own and link it up with others see Laurel Wreath

Elijah's Gift For Aunt Sue Sue

" I need to get by here so

I can get Aunt Sue Sue a gift from that big, bright tree!"

"Why do they always put these chairs back here?

Don't they know it makes it harder for me to get by!"
"Let's see-which one would she like?!"
"Oh yes the basketball one! I know she would like that one!"
"Here Aunt Sue Sue-I got you a gift!"

A Mother-Daughter Affair To Remember

This past Saturday I splurged and took my mother to the Radio City Rockettes Musical Spectacular. It was fabulous! I love to see the Toy Solider Routine and the high kicks but I must admit the finale was the icing on the cake. They closed out the show telling the "Nativity Story." I had to dab away the tears. It is not often anymore that people put so much emphasis on Christmas being a celebration of Christ's birth outside of church doors. To see it out in public really made it all the more significant.

I was blessed to have this day one on one with my mother. Don't get me wrong-I enjoy family time but family time comes often. Mother-Daughter outings are not as often as they used to be. So to be able to spend the day with my mom was priceless. Maybe next year we will be celebrating not only Christ's birth but the birth of our baby numero uno! Only time will tell, right?!

Faithful...

Today's Proverbs 31 Ministry devotional is a good one. You should check it out! Also if you are looking for an uplifting, inexpensive magazine may I suggest that you subscribe to Proverbs 31. It has really blessed my life!

As I was walking today, with a high of 25 degrees-I was thanking God for being there for me through good times and bad. I was praising Him for all that He has done and all that He is going to do in my life. I realize how blessed I am after reading a friend's blog who is a missionary in Africa and they have been without water for a few days now. Yet they are still praising God.

We complain because we don't have the latest gadget or that our house doesn't look like it came out of the pages of the magazine but here are Randy and Kelly praising God for allowing the water to come back on long enough for them to wash dishes, bodies, clothes and flush the toilets. It just reminds me that all the "stuff" we hold so dear really doesn't amount to a hill of beans.

So no matter what may be taking place in your life today-please remember one thing: be thankful!
Thank God for the things we take for granted: shelter from the cold, our health, each new breath and the freedom to pray openly to God.

God bless your journey!
Susan

I Just Couldn't BE more proud!

Two of my favorite blog friends have been nominated for the Christan Women Online Blog Awards. I feel like a proud mama- I am bursting at the seams with pure joy!

If you have yet to read these whatcha waiting for! Go here and here and sit a spell. You will be inspired, I guarantee ya!

On another note...

Do you realize what we have here is a virtual quilting bee! We gather together around the BLOGS and chit chat. Just like they did and still do before technology ruled the world. I have been inspired by so many blogs out there in blogland. Reconnected with old friends. Grew deeper relationships with new friends and even family members. I guess what I am trying to say is thanks. Thank you for reading and posting comments but most of all thank you for writing. As they would say in Texas, "Y'all have inspired little ole me!"


Now go here and vote for my friends!!

"They're All Going to Laugh at Us!"

So I borrowed this picture from our local weather station today. They asked people to send in their pictures of the WINTER BLAST! Guys, come on! Don't you know people up North are laughing at us! This is nothing compared to what I have seen on other peoples blogs who are dealing with a REAL-LIVE-BLIZZARD!

We Texans close schools and businesses for a little bit of slippery road. The local news stations take over the daily line up. The WHOLE day they showed us the same thing over and over. It was like the news was on a rotating feed that sounded something like this:

"We take you now to the bridges and over passes, which are very hazardous....it looks like conditions are getting worse...if you have to drive outside please be careful b/c streets are very icy...Stay home and watch us stand in the cold...I am sure there are people out there who are thankful for garages today-because otherwise they would be outside scrapping away...snow flurry's are falling-looks like we are in for a blizzard." (Yes people actual words out of the reporters mouth!)

But ask me if I left the house today!

Did you leave the house? asks YOU.

No, I work at home so I stayed in doors by the fire.

What else did you do today? asks YOU.

Watched "It's a Wonderful Life" twice. Labeled the company Christmas Cards. Did a few end of the year reports. Made fun of the news casters take on the WINTER BLAST. Made Chili for hubby and my neighbor (my mom)-made hot cocoa and sat by the fire.

That's what I did. Yep. Yep.

So what are you doing the rest of the night? asks YOU.

Well, I am staying up late to watch my college website just in case I don't have class tomorrow.

I bet you a ice cream sandwich that we won't because that is how Texans do things around here!

Wimps-that's what we are and I am a Native Wimp!

Thursday Thirteen: Prayers We Prayed

Many of you know that I am celebrating Canon's year anniversary this week of his new liver. I've been yelling- PRAISE YOU JESUS!!! all day long. During the past year, God brought the Perkins back into my life. (Chandra and I were roommates one summer at college-Drew was in my golf class-he was always trying to help improve my game-I still need work)

Anywhoo, I believe we were brought together because God knew that they would need someone outside of the circle to pray for them. Many days and nights were spent on my knees. I weeped like a baby when I read Chandra's journal the night they found out it was time. I still cry but mostly they are tears of joy or for the fact that they live sooooo far away from me and I don't see them near enough! You can read the full story at :http://mgmorrow.com/canon/indexcanon.shtml

13 Prayers We Prayed for the Perkins:

1. We prayed for the peace that passes all our understanding.

2. We prayed for provision. That the Lord would provide funding for the surgery and Canon's medications for the rest of his life. God richly blessed them.

3. We prayed for Creed, Canon's little brother, who was born during this roller coaster we call life.

4. We prayed for the travel. They had to fly to the appointments in Houston not to mention the 3 dry runs they had to endure.

5. We prayed for protection over Drew and Chandra's marriage. That no matter what might be happening on the outside-that they would remain true to each other and continue to lean on one another during this trying time.

6. We prayed for the many people who sacrificed their time to raise money in honor of Canon.

7. We prayed for Canon that he would be at peace with all the poking and prodding he had to endure. We prayed that God would provide a liver and then that God would heal him.

8. We prayed for the family that would lose their loved one in order to provide Canon with a new liver.

9. We prayed for the non-believers who had lost hope in God. We prayed that through the story of Canon that they would believe and have hope once again in the one true God.

10. We prayed for the doctors and nurses who used their gifts to provide Canon with excellent care and with the Perkins the right amount of knowledge.

11. We prayed for the Perkins and Morrows who were watching not only their grandchild but their children deal with such hardship. They were a source of strength to them during this time. Held them up in prayer, fundraising, babysitting and by just doing what parents do best loving them in good times and in bad.

12. We prayed that their Christmas last year in Houston would be a blessing. It sure was-Canon soon started walking after his surgery.

13. We continue to pray all these things but most of all we praise God for His faithfulness.

Thank you Lord for your healing hand. Thank you Lord for blessing this the Perkins. And Lord thank you for allowing me the opportunity to pray for my sweet friends. You have taught me so many lessons about how rewarding it can be to pray for others.

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While Hubby Is Working...I BLOG!

Christmas officially begins once the Charlie Brown Christmas Special has aired. I told Jeff that this year I wanted to buy the Great Pumpkin, Thanksgiving and the Christmas DVD to pass on to our kids. He says, "No you want to buy them for YOU!" Okay-you got me!

One thing I realized during tonights airing is the fact that the girl that fully annoys Charlie is a girl named Susan. Now that is just not right. Why did they Chuck Shultz name her SUSAN!

Tomorrow is the Year Anniversary of Canon's new Liver...

Tomorrow I will not post a blog because I will be busy praising God for His provision and protection over my best buddy Canon. I am so thankful for his parents who have allowed me to be apart of this journey through prayer and a visit this summer. In honor of Canon, I am posting my Thursday Thirteen on him come Thursday.

Until then, I am off to dance in the streets, shout for joy and sing praises to my King!

"Praise God from whom all blessings flow! Praise Him all Creatures here below! Praise Him above the Heavenly Host. Praise Father, Son and Holy Ghost."

The Doxology- a favorite hymn of mine!

I've Been Tagged

Laurel Wreath tagged me tonight-I should be heading to bed but I had the pleasure of sneaking in a 3 hour nap today- a perk that comes with working out of my home. And since I was working yesterday instead of taking my Sunday nap-I took full advantage of it today. But of course tonight, I have a case of insomnia

A-Z of Me

A - Available/Single? N/A, Married!

B - Best Friend? Jeff and my Alison (BFS-best friend sometimes)

C- Cake or Pie? Chocolate Cake

D - Drink Of Choice? Sonic Cherry Cokes

E - Essential Item You Use Everyday? Hello, my laptop (LW's answer and I have to agree!)

F - Favorite Color? Blue (LW, sage was my wedding colors :) )

G - Gummy Bears Or Worms? Gummy Bears

H - Hometown? (born in ) Bedford, TX

I - Indulgence? Andes Mint Chocolate Chip or a Ben and Jerry's

J - January Or February? February (My Birthday Month)

K - Kids & Their Names? no kids yet...we are in much prayer and hopefully one day soon :)

L - Life Is Incomplete Without? Sonic and Quiet time

(I am known for having QT @ Sonic!)

M - Marriage Date? March 8

N- Number Of Siblings? 1

O - Oranges Or Apples? Oranges to snack-apples for apple pies!

P - Phobias/Fears? having a miscarriage, losing Jeff, dying before I had a chance to really live

Q - Favorite Quote? "What you are becoming while you are waiting is more important than getting there."

Very important for my life

R - Reason to Smile - Classic Movies, my nieces and nephew growing and learning new things

S - Season? Fall

T - Tag Four People? Jodi, Heather, Paige and Lyniel (Real Life Friends/Family)

U - Unknown Fact About Me? I love ELVIS! Yes, I said it-I LOVE ELVIS

V - Vegetable you don’t like? Lima Beans

W - Worst Habit? procrastination

X - X-rays You’ve Had? body

Y - Your Favorite Food? Mexican and a great hearty bowl of spaghetti with the works

Z - Zodiac Sign? Pisces

Thank you Jordan!

Jordan today has been one year since your little life was cut short. Today your parents and family have been heavy on my heart because I know they are missing you greatly today.

But I wanted to tell you thanks because your liver saved my friend Canon's life. You were an answered prayer for me. Although I knew someone would have to lose their life for Canon's sake-I still prayed that God would bring the right person along to save my friends Drew and Chandra from anymore heartache. You see, they already lost one child, Amberly. I knew they were terrified of loosing a second. I often dream of you and Amberly. I dream that you are in heaven playing and running-no fear of bad things to come.

Thank you for praying for Canon without realizing it would be your life that saved this child. Thank you for trusting the Lord with all your heart and excepting Jesus in your heart at an early age. Thank you Jordan for your sacrifice.

I will continue to pray for your family because I know they are still hurting and maybe more so today because a full year has passed.

Friends in blog land, please remember Jordan's family in your prayers as they live through the one year anniversary of their son's death.

Hug your babies today!

Healing Is A Choice

Jesus said,

"Daughter, you took a risk trusting me, and now you're healed and whole.

Live well, live blessed."

-Luke 8:48

(The Message)

It was a risk I chose to take that first time I walked into the counselor's office 6 years ago. It was a choice I made after many months in prayer asking my Heavenly Father to heal my wounds.

It was time to let the baggage go.

I recently read the story of the woman who had bled for 12 years until she reached out in faith to touch the Lord's robe as he and his disciples walked the crowded street. The Lord said, "Daughter, your faith has healed you-go in peace!" (NIV)

Today I was struck with this thought-It was my trust in the Lord that healed me.

I was terrified the first time I walked into the therapist office. I did not know what would come about this journey I was on. The only thing I knew is that I was miserable and unless I received help I would remain just that: miserable.

This started a long arduous journey that left me grasping and clawing my way back to the top. I will not sugar coat this process for those of you who are not comfortable with the healing process. Moving beyond our past is not easy. You see it is easy to live unhappy but it is much harder to learn to be happy in spite of the misery we have made. I slowly dissected every mistake, failure, heartache and misguidance in my life. Then I lay open, bare before the Lord. I did not rush to put it all back together again but I waited for the Lord. The Lord healed me-he made me whole.

"Why are you telling me all of this? " asked YOU.

I tell you this because today I was touched by the Lord's healing hand once again.

6 years ago, I started the healing process because Jeff and I were about to get married. I realized that in order for me to move forward, I had to leave the past in the past. God reminded me that because I chose to trust Him completely He made me whole.

We (Jeff and I) are relearning what it means to trust the Lord completely with our lives. So I tell you all of this as a reminder to me (and maybe you) that God will heal us-yet again-we just have to reach out and believe this to be true.

A Book Suggestion

This book is a must read! I was deeply touched by this book because the central theme is about healing relationships. I just thought that I would share it with you all because it is worth reading plus it is a quick read-I read in one day. Not too deep but does make you reevaluate relationships in your life. Especially the grandmother-mother-daughter relationship. So if you are a grandmother-mother or daughter go pick this up. You will not be dissappointed!

If I Had Only Known By Reba

If I had only known
It was the last walk in the rain
Id keep you out for hours in the storm
I would hold your hand
Like a life line to my heart
Underneath the thunder wed be warm
If I had only known
It was our last walk in the rain

If I had only known
Id never hear your voice again
Id memorize each thing you ever said
And on those lonely nights
I could think of them once more
Keep your words alive inside my head
If I had only known
Id never hear your voice again

You were the treasure in my hand
You were the one who always stood beside me
So unaware I foolishly believed
That you would always be there
But then there came a day
And I turned my head and you slipped away

If I had only known
It was my last night by your side
Id pray a miracle would stop the dawn
And when youd smile at me
I would look into your eyes
And make sure you know my love
For you goes on and on
If I had only known
If I had only known
The love I wouldve shown
If I had only known

I heard this on the radio today when I woke up-felt like it was a dream. I started thinking about all the family I had lost in the last five years. I miss them all greatly during the holidays.

I miss Nanny Betty laughing and shooing all of the cousins out of the kitchen while the "grown ups" cooked. Then calling us all back in to help clean up. I miss all of the cousins laughing until our sides hurt while we work as a team racking up the leaves. It amazes me that not one person in our family felt like they didn't belong. Each person had a place-blood or not.

I miss my Uncle Miller walking through the door at my grandparents house Christmas day. His laugh was contagious-he brought a light to our holiday festivites. He always had a funny joke or a great story that kept us laughing long after Christmas. I miss the light that was in my grandparents eyes as they enjoyed each and everyone of us-crammed in their two bedroom apartment. It didn't matter that we didn't all have a place to sit or that they had the nicest of places. All that mattered was that we were together as a family.

I miss my Nana. From the time that I could drive, I would drive to her house to help with the Holiday Baking. We would laugh as she shared her infamous pie making techniques or the best recipes for fudge. I miss her Christmas decorations. They were always so breathtaking. She had a pink tree that was absolutley beautiful. One day I will have a tree in my house that is filled with pink ornaments and silver ribbon. In honor of Nana and in honor of her fight with breast cancer.

I miss Grandad. I miss how he would pull each of us girl cousins to sit on the arm of his recliner and would pull out his secret stash of York Peppermint patties. The day of his funeral, my cousin Kathryn and I found his stash and cried. I love the way that he would stay up with us for hours that night putting together our new toys. I miss his sweet tender voice as we sang Sunday mornings in church. He liked nothing more than to have his granddaughters around him singing the harmonies of the old fashioned hymns.

I miss being with each and everyone of these people. I miss the familiarity of having your family around you. I miss our big family gatherings that were filled with love and laughter.

If I had only known that the last holiday would of been my last, I think I would of cherished them a little more. I would of stayed longer on the side of Grandad's recliner. I wouldn't have been so rushed to go home after the Christmas baking was done. I would have hugged Nanny Betty longer as she said goodbye. I would of spent more time talking with my family and less time in the kitchen.

I cherish each and every moment with my family. I pray you can do the same. Sometimes I think we forget what the holidays are about: that is why I pray that through the posts on this blog that each and everyone of us will reevaluate the people in your life. Ask yourself "If I knew this was my last holiday with them, would I treat them differently?"

Thanksgiving 2006 w/ the Cherry's

The Cherry Sisters and Maude

The Girls laughing while we wait for the food to warm.
The little cousins painting Christmas ornaments-we have many talented artists in this family.


The grub...this family knows how to cook! Yummy! Yum! Yum! My two favorite brother in laws-digesting after grub fest 2006.
The Hickman boys talking Cowboy football! Go Cowboys!!
The Bride and Groom-they are so giddy with wedding plans.

Preston-chilling in the bathroom-I mean the "Horse Stall!"


Hayley "The Horse" I think she was saying, "Am I going to get fed?"
Sweet Grayson-sitting on the tub taking it all in!

The Cornucopia Cake made by MIL and SIL-isn't it pretty!

The Holiday Festivities Begin...

Baby Brooke and Parents Come for a Visit

Brooke with her Mom, Amy

Brooke with her Granny Sue

While I was away for the weekend scrap booking with my SCRAPPY CHICKS Robert and Amy came into town with little Brooke. I was very sad to miss this opportunity but would not have passed up the opportunity to get away with my SCRAPPY CHICKS to talk, eat, watch chick flicks, scrapbook and get massages. Coming home yesterday, I was able to breathe a little deeper because I wasn't as stressed as when I left. I am so thankful for Jeff taking his camera to get pictures for me but I must say, I am counting down until Christmas is here so I can see Brooke in person.

Cousin Val and Issac are here from Washington State...

My cousin Valerie and her husband Issac came in for Thanksgiving. They live in Washington so coming in to town is always a special occasion since it is not often they are able to get away. The whole family met tonight for good Mexican food. And did you know that in the spring they will get their doctorate in art. Valerie will soon be called Dr. Valerie! Fabulous! We couldn't be more proud of them both.

To Valerie and Issac-I am so proud of your college achievements. I know one day your art will be so well known that they will write books to display your work. And when that day comes, Jeff and I will be the first to purchase a copy to sit on our coffee table for all our guests to see.

Here is a picture of Valerie with our grandparents. If you are looking at my grandmother and thinking "Is she okay?" Yes, she's good-just not very good at taking pictures. Plus the flash is very bright.

They finally got an oxygen tank for her to wear that isn't as heavy as the other ones that she couldn't even lug around. I am thankful for this because I always worry about her when she is not wearing her oxygen, especially when she is out running errands. Now she can go as she pleases with enough oxygen to get her there and back. This is a good thing for a Granny who likes to be on the go.

In Other News...

Jeff and I would like for you to keep a few people in your prayers.

1. Jeff's dad-still in need of a job Please pray that the Lord will provide a job that will be a joy for him to go to each day. Pray that all of our faith will be increased.

2. A good friend of Jeff and I's lost his job today. Pray that he and his wife will not react to the situation but will prayerfully consider the options that God has for them. May the peace transcend all our understanding...

3. Pray for my friend Laura-who is a missionary in Cochabamba and is very homesick for her family. Laura, I tried to leave you a comment but blogger was not my friend. This is my way of telling you that I am praying for you, Gary and little Nathan.

4. Pray for Jordan's family. Jordan is the little boy who died this time last year. Because of this, Canon is alive and well today. Pray for his parents and siblings as they go through the first anniversary and the first holiday season. Pray for Chandra and Drew as well who will praise God on one hand for His provision and on the other hand mourn with Jordan's family for their loss.

5. Pray for the holidays. Please remember to not be stressed this holiday season and to enjoy the family that is around you. Don't ever take your family for granted, cherish the moments you have with them. You never know when God will call them home. Trust me, all the things that we hold grudges about or get upset about DO NOT MATTER IN THE END. So quit your whining and love the one your with. (Sorry, I will step off my soap box now. I always get this way at the holidays but I will leave that for another post on another day!)

I loved a ninja because I am NOT a homosexual!

My sister in law, Missy and I have had a good laugh with this game so I thought I would post it to my blog for all to play.

Leave your sentence in my comments so we can all laugh with each other. My sentence is my title. Feel free to play this game on your blog too just let me know if you post so I can come by to see what your sentence is!

Pick the month you were born:

January------I kicked

February-----I loved

March---------I smoked

April-----------I dry humped

May-----------I choked on

June----------I murdered

July-----------I did the Macarena with

August-------I had lunch with

September---I danced with

October------I sang to

November----I yelled at

December----I ran over

Pick the day (number) you were born on:

1-------a birdbath

2-------a monster

3-------a phone

4-------a fork

5-------a Mexican

6-------a gangster

7-------my cell phone

8-------my dog

9-------my best friends' boyfriend

10-------my neighbor

11-------my science teacher

12-------a banana

13-------a fireman

14-------a stuffed animal

15-------a goat

16-------a pickle

17-------your mom

18-------a spoon

19-------myself

20-------a baseball bat

21-------a ninja

22-------Chuck Norris

23-------a noodle

24-------a squirrel

25-------a football player

26-------my sister

27-------my brother

28-------an ipod

29-------a permanent marker

30-------a llama

31-------A homeless guy

Pick the color of shirt you are wearing:

White--------because I'm cool like that

Black---------because that's how I roll.

Pink----------because I'm NOT a homosexual.

Red----------because the voices told me to.

Blue----------because I'm sexy and I do what I want

Green---------because I hate myself.

Purple--------because I'm cool.

Gray----------because I was drunk

Yellow--------because someone offered me 1,000,000 dollars

Orange-------because I hate my family.

Brown--------because I was high.

Other---------because I'm a ninja.

None----------because I cant control myself

Vacationing from Blogland

The other night at dinner I was telling Jeff my long list of things to do. He looked at me and said, "Maybe you need to take a break from blogging until you get this done." Hmmm, why didn't I think of that!

So for the next few days, I am taking a break to get caught up on my work, school and house. And to have a few days with my scrapbook chicks doing what we do best talking and laughing with a few pages thrown in between.

If I don't see you before, have a Happy Thanksgiving! And remember to be thankful!!!

P.S To my sweet cousins (you know who you are) I am praying for you all. I know this is a hard time for each one of you. I will pray that God will lift your burden and bless your journey.

HAPPY THOUGHTS!

Things are a little crazy so here is my happy thoughts!

Got to run...

Hubby just walked in the door and said,

"Are you fixin dinner?"

(Thinking: NO! FIX IT YOURSELF!)

But I said out loud, "Yes, I will start for you!"

Hey Bible study Chicks: Titus 2 is kicking in!

Tuesday Thanksgivings

Today I choose to be thankful for the Holiday season that is coming upon us.

I say choose because I know that sometimes people look at this time of year as a burden. But I like to see it as a blessing-a time to reflect on all the ways God has blessed us this past year.

Jeff and I have made the decision to keep it simple this year. Just the basic holiday gathering for us. We choose to remember that Christmas is not the amount of presents under our tree but the one gift that has been sent from above. That gift: Jesus Christ.

We would rather enjoy spending time with friends and family rather than fighting the rush at the mall. We want to take time to sit in the glow of the Christmas tree. We want to spend time with our extended family but we also want to carve out a little time for ourselves. Who knows this may be the last year "by ourselves."

I pray that as you start to make your plans that you will schedule time to reflect and be thankful.

God has been good to us this year. So today I choose to take a moment and say thanks to the Lord for giving me life, love and laugher this last few years.

 

"Out of the Mouth of Babes"

Today was our first baptism service in our new church building. We used to meet at a skating rink so the baptisms took place once a month or every two months in someone's pool. Our baptism services are a little more personal than what I grew up knowing. The people give their testimonies before baptism. Needless to say it can run a little long when you have multiple baptisms. But for me, this makes the "conversion" more personal and I like hearing the stories of how God interceed in each person's life. Priceless!

After church was over I turned to our good friends. Who have one son, named Sam, who is too old to attend Children's Church. We often have to surpress giggles when he yawns really loud during the middle of the service. Today was no different-just a little louder than normal. Jeff could not pull it together the rest of church.

I said to Alison his mom, "Glory, Glory!" (I was being funny after singing an active version of I'll Fly Away)

Sam reply, "Yeah it was BORING!"

We started dying laughing. "Sam, I didn't say BORING-I said GLORY!"

Sheepishly he said, "Oh sorry!"

But if you could have seen the face his father, A FW Dectitive, face. OH MY GOSH-HILARIOUS! His dad is known for taking church and bible study very seriously. His nickname is the 2-7 Nazi (a name of a year long bible study he leads)

Sweet Sam, don't ever loose your truth! It is what makes you who you are-Mr Jeff and I have laughed all day.

I will say "Glory"

And Jeff will reply "It was Boring-wasn't it!"

Here is something Sam would do:

Baptism Cannonball!

HAPPY VETERAN'S DAY!

Why the US Navy is better than the Irag Navy!

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Celebrating My 100th post!

I hear that when you reach your 100th post you are to write 100 things about yourself. I still can't believe I have hit the BIG 1-0-0! Wow! So with much ado about nothing here it goes...

1. My name is Susan.
2. If I was born a boy my name would have been Bomber.
3. My brother's name is Gunnar-I guess my parents thought they would be funny naming the next son Bomber.
4. Thank God I was a GIRL!
5. We have no children but we have a name for our son.
6. His name will be Duke (something-no middle name yet).
7. Some of our family members are hoping we have all girls since they don't like the name Duke. I didn't like Duke at first either. But it is the most animated I have seen Jeff over any name so it will stay
8. But others like to tease and I am fine with that...for now.
9. When we do find out I am pregnant all jokes about the name Duke must stop! It is my job to protect my baby and I will fight you if I must. I'm not scared to whoop your @$%!
10. Just remember-I could name him Bomber.
11. But for now we are the cool Aunt and Uncle. We have 3 nieces and one nephew. These kids frequent the blog world often since they are a huge part of our life. And they do funny things.
12. I am finishing my degree-I FINALLY went back. I fell a little behind. But I am finishing it-that's all that matters.I just don't have many friends in college this go round. They see me as the old lady who does her homework and comes to class sober.
13. I didn't care if I got bad grades the first time I went to school-but this go round, I don't like to settle for less than a B.
14. I still don't know if I will finish. I am taking it one semester at a time. God will lead the way.
15. My husband is my best friend. I met him while I was working at Chili's.
16. He didn't like me the first time we met. He thought I was a "female dog". He soon realized that person he first met was not the real me.
17. How we ended up married is an example that God works in mysterious ways.
18. The song "Bless the Broken Road" by Rascal Flatts describes our relationship to a tee.
19. We were both mending broken hearts when we first met.
20. God blessed our broken road.
21. We married March 8, 2003.
22. The same day my cousin Clay and Maurine married.
23. Clay and Maurine just welcomed their first child, Avery Maurine.
24. Jeff would like to name our daughter Avery too.
25. I like the name but now with Clay and Maurine's first child being named Avery, well I just don't know.
26. We will see what happens-Clay and Maurine, this could be another one of our similarities one day.
27. Back to the wedding...if we only knew then what we know now.
28. I guarantee we would still be married it's just things would of been different.
29. More like-we would have eloped and called it a day.
30. We still live in the apartment that I moved into when Jeff and I were dating.
31. It's next door to my mom. It is a coincidence-the only apartment available at the time and I needed to move from my old apartment. It was too far from everyone.
32. Jeff will tell you that my mom is the best neighbor since she is never home.
33. What he doesn't know is that she stops by when he goes to work.
34. He works nights-this works out nicely for my mom and I to chat.
35. But she doesn't come by that much: She is never home.
36. Jeff and my mom have a running joke that our new house will be equipped with a mother-in-law's suite.
37. He says he will charge rent but give her a discount if she becomes the "on call babysitter" for our kids.
38. Which our kids are still in heaven.
39. A lady once asked me at a scrapbook retreat-what I did with my kids for the weekend. I said, "They are in heaven so I didn't have to find a babysitter." She turned white as a ghost. My BFS (best friend sometimes) Alison quickly explained that is my way of saying we don't have kids.
40. The lady thought I was strange-but per the quirky factor.com I am only 33% weird.
41. I work out of my home for Ashley Furniture.
42. Our little living room is my office.
43. Jeff and I both can't wait to have a separate room for all of my junk.
44. Ashley Furniture is big on catalogs.
45. My living room is covered with Ashley catalog pictures.
46. I love the job-just hate the stuff that invades my living room.
47. Jeff and I are looking to move in the spring.
48. I will be sad when we move.
49. Lots of memories have been made here.
50. I won't miss my upstairs neighbors. They like to play Spanish music really loud.
51. Bum, bum. Bum, Bum goes the beat.
52. Not to mention they own a squeaky bed. I am surprised they have yet to have kids with the amount of squeaking that takes place. Enough said.
53. I found out this week her name is Sarah when UPS mistook my apartment for hers.
54. Sarah now says hi to me.
55. She is not as evil as I thought-she just is very "active.”
56. I recently told Jeff that he could pick our new house.
57. I told him to cut it down to his Top 5 then I will go looking
58. That way I don’t have to have my heart broken each time we look at a house.
59. Trust me! He will look more than I would want to and it will be hard for me to pick just one.
60. He will also pick a good house-he has GREAT taste.
61. I believe this will make both of our lives easier.
62. We may be homeless come April 30th but I will still let him find a house.
63. When we bought our car-2 years ago, the plan was for it to be a Christmas surprise for me.
64. He looked but never committed until Memorial Day weekend. Almost 6 moths later.
65. So you see why I am choosing to let him pick the Top 5
66. ….the whole process will take awhile.
67.I always wonder what lesson I am supposed to be learning during this whole waiting period in my life.
68.But then I remember that once kids and a house come we will have less time to goof off-so I enjoy the wait!
69.I hate waiting in long lines though.
70.In fact, this year I am buying most of my Christmas Presents online or early.
71.By doing this I hope to beat the crowds-I don’t like crowds too much.
72.I do like people and being around people but not in a crowd. It freaks me out.
73.Especially at the mall surrounded by all the kids with their pants way too low. Why do people do such things? It is so not cool!
74.Speaking of cool, my favorite time of year is coming soon…winter.
75.My Birthday is in February-and I was born on a day that had a horrible freeze.
76.I think that is why I prefer the cooler weather over the hot summers.
77.And I live in Texas so summers are mega-hot.
78.I also don’t like to be hot while I am sleeping. I like it cold-very cold.
79.We have yet to turn on the heater-haven’t really needed to but last week it was cold one night and I just grabbed another blanket. I wanted to save money.
80.I am a frugal person. I like nice things but I don’t like paying full price.
81.Some people call me cheap-that’s okay since they are not the ones paying our bills
82.I am paying my way through school. This time without taking out any loans.
83.I just paid off my final school loan a few months back for a degree in which I have yet to get, I really don’t want more loans adding up.
84.I either take one class or two just depends on how I feel when I register for classes.
85.I may never finish my degree at this rate but again no big deal.
86.I choose to take one day at a time and not sweat it.
87.Another factor that plays into my class schedule is the amount of vacations Jeff and I have planned.
88.We love to travel.
89.When we got married, we decided to we hit 50 states in 50 years.
90.We are on the fast track; we have hit 19 states in 4 years.
91.In fact on our trip to Washington DC-was the first time we set up a blog. We realized that we had some funny stories happening and we couldn’t wait to get home to share.
92.Our favorite was the story of the Amish. They were a quaint little family. A true joy for me.
93.We started a road trip blog this past summer but that is mainly pictures.
94.Blessed Assurances was born out of a daily devotional I used to write and realized it was time for me to go bigger when my email said I could no longer send out mass emails.
95.Some people from my daily devotionals still check in here.
96.For those I am thankful.
97.For the new friends I have made in the last 100 posts, I would like to say thank you for hanging around.
98.I hope you have been inspired.
99.Who knows what the future holds for this blog.
100.But one thing is for sure-I know who holds the future and that is my loving most gracious Heavenly Father. Thank you Lord for carrying me through good times and bad.

"Aunt Sue Sue is Crazy!" -Elijah

I realized last night that I only had 99 posts NOT 100.
So here is Elijah filling in the gap for me.

 

My 13 Favorite Websites

I don't know about you but I like to get ideas of websites to frequent especially if they make my life easier. Enjoy!

1. Two Peas and A Bucket If you are a scrapbooker or looking for a creative spark this is the place to be...it is perfect for when you hit the creative brick wall. You will walk away with many ideas.

2. Martha Stewart She is my favorite for decorating ideas. I also find recipes, crafts and cleaning tips here.

3. Food Network If you ever need a new recipe this is the place to go. I keep Food Network on in the background and often see recipes I would like to try-I can print the recipes online here. They also have videos that teach you how to use a knife, dice and mince.

4. Anywho- A yellow pages/white pages on line. It is faster and easier to navigate than the yellow pages online. I saved an address book online and refer to it often.

5. Organized Home-This is a huge help to keeping my busy life organized. Last Christmas I printed up the "Organized Christmas" pages and already my plan for this year has been laid out. I also have established routines based on this website. (If you battle depression-a routine is the best thing to START doing to get you out of the funk. Trust me-I have conquered the depression thing so if you find yourself wanting to sleep or do nothing all the time-go here and get yourself a routine.)

6. Craft TV Weekly A online tv show that walks you through scrapbook techniques. It's free so check it out.

7. ABC- Did you miss your favorite ABC show like LOST, Desperate Housewives or Grey's Anatomy? Watch it for free online the next day. We are too cheap to buy TIVO so this is what I do-LOVE IT!

8. Netflix Most people use netflix these days but it is my favorite spot for catching up on my classic movies

9. One Place This is your one stop shop for all the great Christian talk shows. Revive Our Hearts, Focus on the Family, Precepts for Life and Family Life Today are just a few of the shows I listen to at my convience. Most of these allow you to download an MP3 of the show for free-I download them to my IPOD and listen while I am cleaning my house.

10. Fandango Find out the local theatre times here. If we know the movie will be sold out-we buy in advance and pick it up at the little kiosk at the the movie theatre.

11. Proverbs 31- This is a wonderful women's ministry. I love what it stands for and what they have taught me over the years. A true blessing if I do say so myself.

12. Christmas Recipes- Last year, when I Christmas was finished I searced out new recipes for this year. They also have fun little ideas for making bulk food items for Christmas presents. Which I believe is an inexpensive way to bless those in your daily life that are not family but are also not your best friend. If you need ideas check this out.

13. Real Simple- I think I may of saved the best for last. I love the magazine too! Sometimes when Martha gets a little over the top-I head over here becasue they seem to provide a little more pratical tips without breaking the bank. Cleaning tips, organizing, saving money there is a whole world over there yet to be discovered.

So I am off to surf the web!

Oh... big announcement!

Tomorrow is my 100th post and I have heard that when you reach #1-0-0 you are to write 100 things about you or your life-so tomorrow that is what I plan to do. I started last night so I have 50 more things to write and then I will be finished.

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Weddings Vs The Marriage Part 2

Wedding Advice for the WIFE to be:

1. Make a list of attributes you would want in a mate BEFORE you find your mate. My mom suggested that I do this after my first "crush" in high school came to an end. She found me on the floor crying my eyes out when she said, "What did you like about him and what didn't you like?" So I thought about it and made a list. I recently found my list and I am happy to say that Jeff checked off on almost everything.

The reason it is better to make a list BEFORE you start dating is so that you will not be jaded by the "I am soooo in love" state of mind. It happens to the best of us and if you aren't prepared you will settle for the first guy that says "I love you, you complete me" and all the other junk people say when they are high on love.

2. Find out who YOU are first before settling into any type of serious dating situation. Jeff and I had both come out of hurtful, unhealthy relationships. Because of this we both took a break from dating. Jeff came into my life when I wasn't looking for a date or a mate and vice versa. God used this time to help both of us grow and figure out what we wanted in our next relationship and for us to become friends first. I encourage everyone to have a season of "singleness" in order to become better acquainted with yourself but most importantly God. Especially if you are someone who jumps in and out of relationships back to back. That's not healthy...

3. Develop your home making skills. Learn to cook, take up sewing, get yourself in a house keeping routine. These are all part of being a Proverbs 31 wife. Ask people in your life be it a mother, mentor or friend to help you develop these skills. This truly will prepare you for marriage and keeping up with your husband.

4. When you find that certain someone ask yourself the following questions.

-What is his Relationship to God like?
Does he go to church?
Does he have a daily quiet time?

-How does he treat others?
Does he get angry easy, is he lazy, is he hyper?
Does he think about others needs?

-How does he treat his family?
Does he honor his parents?

How does he treat you?
Does he treat you like a lady?
Does he honor your body?
Does he call you and make a point to spend time with you? Or do you do all the work.
Side Note: If you are chasing after him, three words, KNOCK IT OFF!

-How does he deal with finances?
Does he spend unwisely?
Does he keep a budget?
Is he a compulsive shopper?



All of these things will play a big role in your marriage. There are more questions you and your future spouse need to ask each other-this is just the beginning. The most important thing though is not consider marriage and or dating without praying first. Have friends and family support your relationship in prayer. It makes a huge difference if you have someone in your life that knows you well who can pray with you and hold you accountable. I had a mentor friend who helped me in so many ways during the course of dating, engagement and now as a married woman. She has been a real blessing to both Jeff and I, so let me encourage you to find someone who can walk with you.

Just remember to never settle for someone because God is faithful and will lead you to the right mate...one day.

Tuesday Thanksgivings

The other day I was having a "moment". I have these often about this or that. My mom was there-like she has often been through out my life. She told me flat out, "The reason you are freaking out is because you are not living in the moment-you are living too far into the future and you need to live in the I Am." Which is here way of saying, "Don't get too far ahead of God's plans."

Here is the thing that I am the most thankful for-she has risen above her past. We all have a past some more public than others. Hers was a public one and she faced a lot of scrutiny but she has grown beyond this and I am thankful.

Last week, she started her new job as Executive Admin to the Pastor of Global Ministries at Gateway Church. I could of not been more proud. She has grown leaps in bound the last few months. Proof to me that God answers prayers.

I am thankful that she never gave up on herself or us. I am also thankful that she trusted God enough to remove the "junk" in her life and step out on faith in starting this new job. I am thankful for her listening ear. I am thankful that she is the one who encourages me to get up at 6:30 in the morning to walk two miles. I am thankful that she gives me advice when I am have a problem to solve. I am thankful that she continues to encourage me to keep on writing. I am thankful that she has started her own ministry. And tonight she is meeting with her first mentee-she will be a great mentor to this woman. I know this because she has been a great mentor to me.

So tonight I post this message only because tomorrow morning my mom and I are walking to place our vote and since I have been sick all day today-I may have to go to the doctor tomorrow and you know how the doctors office can be...BRUTAL!

Weddings Vs The Marriage Part 1

It is no secret in my family that while planning my wedding almost 4 years ago, I became a little obsessed with the wedding planning. Jeff and I both worked together to pay for this little shin-dig. It was a struggle from day one-especially since neither of us wanted to go into debt to pull this thing off. We also had different views on how things should go. I had always envisioned a wedding with every single one of my family and friends. Jeff just wanted his close family and his two best friends. He didn't care who came he just wanted to get married. I did because I wanted all the bells and whistles.

My husband sent me a card while after one of the biggest fights of our relationship. The reason for this fight: the number of guests to invite. The card said, "Let's not forget that in the end the only thing that should matter on March 8 is you and I becoming man and wife." I soon realized how off base I had been while planning the wedding. After that card, things didn't matter anymore because in the end the only thing that mattered was Jeff and I becoming man and wife.

The total cost of our wedding was just over $5,000. We did not have a caterer-we served Cake, Punch and M&M's. It was at 2 and my cousin was getting married the same day at 7. So all of our families went out to eat between weddings. We had friend who was looking to start her own photography business photograph our big day. That alone saved us tons of money. Our church has a "Wedding Pantry" for all the small things you need-punch bowl, ceramic columns, linens that sort of thing. My mom paid for the wedding dress as our wedding gift. I made all the bouquets except my own. Jeff insisted that I have "real flowers."

About three weeks out from our wedding, I truly started enjoying the moment. When it came time for the wedding-I was having fun, laughing with my friends and enjoying the moment. Looking back, I am thankful for each and every person who helped me put the "Wedding Crazy" into perspective. I couldn't wait to walk down the aisle to my future husband. I laughed when my niece Faith threw a fit because she did not want to walk down the aisle. No big deal-I knew these things would happen so I just chilled. 5 minutes before the wedding my two best friends waited with me upstairs and we laughed and cried at the whole journey. I grabbed my grandfathers hand and we prepared our little assent. He told me " You can back out now if you want." As we passed the table in the atrium at our church filled with M&M's he stopped to help himself-he insisted that I take a drink of punch too. I said, "We have to go they are all waiting for us!" And he winked at me and said' " You sure you don't want to call it off!" I just grabbed his arm and yanked him towards the door.

Tune in Wednesday for the advice I NOW give to all new brides...

Changes...

When I was in high school, my senior thesis covered the concept of change. I wrote how change was the only constant in our world. I have realized over the last few years that I am not a person who likes change. I like things to stay as they are-the way I have known it always to be. But since change is the only constant-it is inevitable things will change.

I woke up last night from a dream where in the dream I found out I was pregnant. I had a panic attack for a good 45 minutes. I tried to pray for peace but I am still freaked out today. I know I am psyching myself up for no reason but finding out that I am pregnant may cause me to totally freak. Why? Because this means that there is no going back now.

My senior English teacher told me "That the greatest journeys begin with good-bye." Which means that in order for the next phase to begin we have to learn to let go of something else. We are about to enter the greatest joy of our life-moving into our first home, starting a family. And although I look forward to this moment, I am still a little freaked. I try to act all tough with Jeff-someone has to be the rock right?!? And trust me, if I told him I was freaking out-he would say then we need to wait. But of course, waiting is not really an option because neither one of us are getting any younger.

So I ask you all to pray for us. Pray that for the next 45 days (that is when my pill runs out-and I am NOT renewing it!) that we will take life one day at a time. Pray that Jeff and I will be at peace with where God leads us. Pray that we will be joyful as we embark on the greatest but biggest change thus far.

And before I forget to tell you-I am so thankful that God is the one constant that won't change! And one more thing I keep telling myself "If Jodi, Maurine, Kendra and Rachel can do it so can I!" (Love you chicks!)

How Quirky Are You?

Your Quirk Factor: 33%

You have a few little quirks, but you generally blend in well with society. Only those who know you well know how weird you can be.

How Quirky Are You?

Thursday Thirteen: WHY?!?!

I had it written-I lost 1-5. Decided that blogger is acting too goofy today so I am signing off! So I will do my Why list later! I can tell you one thing #2,3 and 4 had to do with you-Stupid ole blogger! Not you the reader-Blogger in general!!

I Choose You!

I was on the phone today with Jodi-Reagan's Mom. In the background I heard little Reagan singing.

Me: "Is that Reagan?"

Jodi: "Yeah, she is singing herself to sleep!"

Me: "Elijah does the same thing!

(I was thinking, "These two will be married one day!")


And you see from the picture that Elijah totally agrees!!

He is pointing to Reagan saying " I choose you!"

So one day at Deer Run, Reagan will catch Elijah on Sadie Hawkins day and the rest as they say, will be history!!!

Why the Prayer Journal Works For Me!

It started when I was in high school-looking for a way to release. A friend showed me her prayer journal-and next to each prayer request was a date and the word AMEN. Which translates to: God answered and the date it happened.

I became intrigued with this idea. I started to write and write I did. I now have close to 50 journals-some I have kept-some I have thrown away. But the prayer journal has become my way of documenting my journey.

The year I met Jeff-I started to pray for a husband on a nightly bases. I have each prayer written down. I will give to him one day-he knows they are there-I just think it would be a neat anniversary gift, when the time is right. So I am holding on to them. When we started to date-I wrote out each little detail. A couple of weeks before the wedding- I freaked out-thought I would call the whole thing off-I prayed it out in my prayer journal. I walked down the aisle and never looked back. I just knew that it was the right thing.

I have had highs and lows and those moments in between but God has been there through it all. I have shared my deepest darkest fears, my funny moments of my days, my happy moments, my sad moments and still God has been there.

Recently I started listing my prayer request in one sentence lines-and then writing out the bible verse that was laid on my heart that coincidently enough coincided with my prayer request. I memorized the scripture and throughout my day- that same scripture will pop up and I will think "Oh that belongs to so and so-they must need me to pray over them" Then I pray-I could be walking through Wal-Mart and the name or scripture pops into my head so I start to pray.

"Draw Near to God and He will Draw Near to You!" James 4:8

I believe this to be true. Because I have allowed my self to be drawn into a time of prayer with my heart, mind and soul-I am closer to God. Atleast that is what I choose to believe. One of the greatest compliments ever given to me was by a friend who told another friend in my presence, "If she says she is praying for you she is and she has the pages to proove it!"

So I will continue to pray, continue to write and one day will lavish the moment when I can write Amen and the date next to a prayer request for myself or for others. Because God will answer our prayers when His timing is right!

For more What Works For Me See: Shannon at Rocks in My Dryer-there could be something you need!